I was dating this guy for a while when I was a little younger, for about a year and a half, and he was just kind of it for me in a way. He was my first love. I ended up getting separated from him for other reasons and eventually we kind of just lost each other.
5 years later he and I reunite, and he is smoking K2 and, it’s already causing issues. I don’t understand it. I was so happy that we found our way back to each other and everything and we’ve slowly decided that we both wanted to try again and see if we could make this work.
I’ve known he has been smoking it, he’s been addicted to it for around 4 years roughly, and I believe that I can help him, but everyone is looking at him like a “charity case,” and it makes him feel like shit about himself and everything but he’s told me that he doesn’t want help.
I don’t know what I should do, he is literally the love of my life, and I’d do anything to help him and all, but I don’t know what kind of approach I should take to at least talking about it.
He knows I don’t like it and he doesn’t smoke it in front of me, but when he goes back home, he’s not the same. He doesn’t call or try to see me or anything, he’s just worried about smoking K2. Even when we spend time together, he’s worried about when he’ll be able to smoke again or when he can get more so he can sleep at night.
He doesn’t see it as a problem, and he doesn’t like anyone who tries to tell him he needs to get off of it. I want to help him, and I want to be with him, but I don’t know what to do.
I’m trying to show him I’m standing by him through this. I feel like I could bring the best out of him and help him, just like he does for me. Someone, please help me, some advice or something, I’m so lost, and I just want my love back.