• ImHereToDiscuss

    He’ll never change. Spice is his girlfriend now and you don’t matter. Nothing does, not even his own life. All he cares about is the next fix.
    Either leave or prepare to take care of an addict for the rest of your life.

  • BBdaTaurus

    If you really love him (and don’t have any kids with him) RUN. I’ve been with my bf since May 2015. He’s been on this spice bit for about the last 3 years. Before this he used to smoke real weed, but his preference has totally changed. He does work (under the table) consistently but being 5 months pregnant by him is scaring the crap out of me…he smokes outside (cuz I’m preggo of course) and will be out there for 2-3 hours after he comes home from work. By the time he comes in the house I’m sleep, he’s got the munchies and I could possibly wake up to him having started to eat something and pass BACK out on the bed..crumbs everywhere. (This has happened a couple times in the last month). He gets disoriented and has poor speech and it makes me furious! He’s preoccupied with this stuff. I bet the only reason he works so hard and so much is to have money for this now $20-$25 a day habit. BOOOOO. RUN RUN RUN if you can…

  • Hevnlyone

    My story sounds exactly like yours… he swears he will quit.. four times in two years we have had months of arguing. He quits then runs back to it. Last Thankagiving he fell down the basement stairs backwards and landed on his head because of a seizure. We got home from the ER, both our families were here, and he went back down and started smoking it again. I left and went to my daughters for a couple weeks. His mom told him I wasn’t coming back and he lost the best thing he ever had. He quit by the time I came home. But he’s started up again this last week. I have rented my house and sold half my furniture.. now I am stuck. I am angry.. scared.. hurt.. he lies and says it is all gone and he won’t get anymore.. then 20 mins later I find him laying in a heap at the top of the stairs having a seizure. Thank God he didn’t fall down them again. What do I do? Move away? I am so confused and scared… what if he falls down the stairs and dies? How will I live with myself?