My boyfriend is addicted to spice.
I have been with him for 2 years now, and he has been addicted for about 4. He on and off tries to quit but it literally has him by the balls.
I recently moved out with him and believed that he would quit once we move out since it’s in my name, and I don’t want shit like that in my home. (I drink beer occasionally but that’s about it.)
The first day we slept there, he smoked twice in the bedroom. Once, while I was sleeping, the smell woke me the hell up and the second time I got off work early and found him with the pipe again. I have been giving him chance for two years, to get clean.
But now I feel like he has my hands tied behind my back and I’m stuck in this situation. Just last Oct, he had to go to the hospital because he started to have several grand mal seizures after smoking a bowl of spice. Two weeks after that, he borrowed my car and never came back, I then got a call from the Allen County Jailhouse. He got pulled over for driving recklessly in my car and for being high on spice. My car was impounded and I had to be the one to get it out.
He has lost a lot of jobs after that due to “poor performance” . One job, he got fired for smoking spice in the restroom. So many incidents have happened the past few months . I know I don’t have the addiction, and I don’t want to sound like an annoying whiny bitch, but his addiction stresses me out!
I just don’t know what to do or how to handle it. I try so hard to believe him and not doubt that he will quit, but he then proves me wrong. I don’t want to struggle or cry or worry anymore. I love him and I would love to see him put back together.
What can I do or what kind of methods are there to help him quit? I know I can’t change someone. I just want to help him get through it.
I know he is suffering and he truly wants to quit but I seriously don’t know how to help…
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